It doesn't take long. Chat a little at the counter once or twice, give a longing glance; wave or nod twords him. It doesn't take much. Look real sexy, and ask his name, then tease him. Don't give him yours. Then later, when he looks real desprate, and slightly annoyed, walk over slowly and tap him on the shoulder. The physical contact is like a static shock, frying their brain for an instant. Grab hold of that minute to shove some food in his hands. It doesn't matter what, just make it sweet, as in candy or chocolate, or beef jerky. Then nod your head down, so your looking up at him, smile, and say, "i think you were looking hungry." then leave. Now, if you wish to progress this further, then there is a trick in the bag here. Or on the bar (of chocolate). Take a sharpie, and write your number on the back of it. Add a smilie face, or a pout, or some lips, it doesn't really matter. He'll get the point. Now, then next day, go up to him, call his name, and ask him if he got your number. Chances are he didn't, but he still has the wrapper somewhere. Be nice about it. Remember, guys are dense. They dont think Candy=phone #. So, tell him that you want to hang out, and, by the way, here's the real sticker. Stick your tounge out, or act sexy, or whisper it in his ear (my choice), but this is the time to tell him your name. After this, women, girls, and females of all ages, you will have to carry on the best you can in your very own way. Advice? Be your self 99%. Its okay to be 1% someone else. Alright, now go get'em!